Thursday, 6 February 2014

opposite attracts, similarities became a starting point as common bases.

similarities:

  • similar way of protecting ourselves from being hurt
  • distance ourselves when we are not feeling right
  • lots of reflection on self
  • similar mindset on not having kids
  • always crazy/joker when with friends
  • used to people hating us
  • blame on self when there's fault
  • loves fishes
  • used to be sporty
  • hates clubbing
  • easy-going
  • very simple life
  • possessive
  • don't bother attitude
  • rebel
  • agree that singapore is boring to do anything interesting as a couple
  • somewhat similar music preference. 
differences:

Him
Me
Neat & tidy
Untidy
Gets influenced easily without him knowing. (even thou he claims he knows)
Think a lot
Uncomfortable with her spending money on him
Loves to purchase things for him
Neutral replies
Leads to thinking a lot
Family fellow
Loner
Private fellow
Social media announcer
Indecisive (keeps changing plans for his own future)
Planner (Maybe a bit too much after crossing over the 2nd year.)
A step at a time
Lots of theories to follow after
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Worrier (because of thinking too much)
Saver (but spends on his favourite stuffs)
Spender (regardless for self or for others)
Keep cool
Panicky
Leaning towards Chinese culture
Leaning towards English culture


I can't list all the differences because some are private. but to me, because of the differences, it is what makes a r/s workable. We can't have identical personality, if not opposites don't attract.  

I'm not looking for trouble because that trouble came to find me and invite me to play with it. so be prepared, cause the one that is going to hurt won't be me alone. 

still waiting for you & wishing that you think of me every time.